Friday, May 19, 2006

wtf?

okay ... it is an odd morning.

on the way to work this morning, i passed by foreign affair, a cute little boutique on barrington street, and some movement in the window caught my eye. there was a bird, a raven or something, sitting on top of a mannequin, looking around and wondering if they had a purse to match her new dress.

it was the oddest thing to see ... i tried calling the store to warn them that they had a visitor, but they didn't have voicemail, so i didn't get to leave a "um, there is a bird in your store and i don't think it works there" message. i so wish i had my camera with me ... further justification of my resolution of yesterday!

the oddest thing of them all, of all the odd things that have happened this year thus far, is more a karma thing than anything else, i think ... not sure what to think yet, because my brain is still forming thoughts.

so ... i had these friends in high school ... let's call them stacie and debbie, because those are their names ... we stayed friends through university and into real life, but some issues arose and we are no longer in contact with each other. i have some lingering bitterness about the whole thing, but in truth, i am better off without them in my life and i now have friends who actually know what it means to be a friend.

anyway ... it has been over 3 years since i really had any real contact with debbie ... we live in the same city, but i have only run into her once in all that time ... which means that i could be a hermit, or just have dumb luck.

last week i thought i saw her drive past my bus stop ... which is no where near where i thought she was living. yesterday i saw a car that looked a lot like hers in the parking lot of my apartment building. this morning, i looked out the window and saw someone who looked an awful freaking lot like her get into that same car. and then, when i looked on the buzzer list in the lobby of my building ...

... there was her name!

oh. my. god. what are the odds? really? there are a million apartment buildings in halifax, and of all the gin joints in all the world she had to move into mine!

now i am at a loss at what to do. do i e-mail her and say, "hi, neighbour"? or do i try to forget that i saw her and skulk around my building, hoping that i never run into her? what the fuck?

5 comments:

carolb said...

Not being one to face these things head on, I'd just wait. LOL! You know it's going to happen. I like to prolong the incident with stressful anticipation. I find the anticipation way worse than the actual conflict, actually. I must be a masochist. However, it has been 3 years, maybe she's not exactly how you remember her...

In a situation similar to yours, I ran into someone I had a falling out with at a gelato place and looked right at her and pretended I didn't recognize her. Uhm, yah. That's how I handled that.

Don't take any advice from me, okay?

michelle said...

lol ... i have known debbie since the 5th grade, and our parents live within spitting distance of each other ... she is just one of those people who drained the energy from me. whenever we would hang out together, she would make me feel guilty for spending time with my then-boyfriend ... and she is just judgemental and not very forgiving.

we were on the verge of resparking our friendship a couple of years ago (spurred on by the fact that stacie, who lives in ab, said that she wouldn't make seperate plans with us when she visited that summer ... nice.), when my ex and i broke up.

i had an e-mail from her that said "i don't want to be your friend if you just want someone to spend time with now that you're single" ... again, nice. no "sorry that you and the guy you thought you would marry are dunzo", no sympathetic ear, nothing.

anyway ... for now i am just basking in the drama of it ... there was a very funny voicemail message left on andrea's phone this morning as i dealt with the realisation!

andrea said...

and it brought the comic relief to my morning. and i agree w.t.f. ... of course knowing your former friends and current friends - i'd say your current friends are MUCH nicer :P

Crystal said...

And I would have to say that Andrea's a very smart cookie .. current friends are great ! :D

michelle said...

amen, sistas! :)